1. Don't text him.
2. Don't text him.
3. Don't text him (or call, e-mail, Facebook, MySpace, or Twitter). EVER.
4. Engulf yourself in music. Whatever music, whatever songs or artists or messages it takes.
5. Write about it. Put it on your blog, confess it in your journal, write a letter (don't send it), text your friends. Get it out.
6. Think about your pain on purpose. Accept the thoughts and emotions; they're going to come whether or not you welcome them. Have your moments... then press on.
7. Don't think about his new bitch.
8. Devise battle plans; you will need them eventually.
9. Embrace the magic and divinity of Time.
10. Cultivate yourself and Life and holism and God.
11. Convert to the religion of verbs: doing, doing, trying, infinitely doing and being and living.
12. Cry. Yell. Be pathetic. Don't let anyone shame you for it.
13. Rely on your friends. And again, be shameless about it. They're supposed to help dig you out of your hole.
14. Have a rebound with words, language, imagery, and imagination/creativity.
15. Learn from it. Suck out every little lesson you can.
16. Forgive.
BONUS CHALLENGE: Separate yourself in love, grace, and goodness; do not consecrate yourself to bitterness, hate, or hostility.
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