"too much trouble.."

*****VENTING ALERT******
People are mindlessly superficial space cadets.
(No i'm not explaining that little tidbit. It speaks volumes in itself)

On another note, let me just say that its not "too much to ask" for a little wining and dining. It shouldn't be "too much trouble" to know your worth and demand compliance. When you settle for second rate.. you'll be treated as second best. This principle holds no gender and no bias. Its true for all. Guys need praise and finnessing just as we ladies need appreciation and lovin'.

And let it be known, the second you begin to feel like you are overcompensating these privileges (they are not 'rights') to your partner..reel it back in. There is no such thing as "something for nothing". I always say you gotta give to receive. (;